Donna sits in her therapist’s office week after week sharing her concerns about Brad her husband of 7 years. He is loud, irresponsible, messy, selfish, rigid, unaffectionate, and condescending. All very valid claims. She is at her wits end with him. Each session as she talks about his latest failings (and reminds the therapist about his previous ones); she becomes angrier with him, with God, more miserable, frustrated and hopeless. She blames herself for not consulting the Lord about her decision to marry Brad, and now strongly feels that this marriage had not been God’s will and that she is living out the consequences of her bad decision. This coupled with the fact that the Bible talks about Christians having to carry their .........